Where Are You in Your Career Adventure Path?
Are
you in a rut or in a groove in your career adventure path? Rut and groove are
both furrows. But a rut is boring, uninteresting, and can be depressing. Whereas
being in the groove is good fun and energizing. And being in the groove is the
act of getting the best out of yourself.
Then
I would like to ask you a few questions about your career and I believe if you’re
able to give me satisfactory answers, then you’re good to go in your career
adventure.
Where
are you at the moment?
In
a Rut or a Groove?
A
rut is caused by having your foot firmly on the accelerator. Whereby you’re
pressing it down for all you are worth but you’re not going anywhere.
Absolutely nowhere!
You
are, most probably, covering all the people standing behind you with earth,
grass, rubbish, waste, etc, but you’re not moving. In fact, you’re getting
deeper and deeper in trouble until finally, you are up to the axle and not going
anywhere. So stuck that you will need a spade, a fork, a tow truck, or anything to
get you going again.
How
did you get there?
Doing
the same thing day after day. Following the same routine over and over again.
Following those wonderful phrases in your head;
It
was good enough for …. It will be good enough for me
It
worked. It will work for me.
You
always did it this way…………..
Before
you criticize me for talking negatively about the tradition, I am in no way
knocking or mocking the tradition. Tradition has a place but not at the expense of happiness
and excitement in our lives.
In
our book, if it makes you unhappy, bored, and pessimistic why are you still
doing it? Then, the question is:
How
would you get out of it?
Simple.
Change
your habits.
It’s
your habits that got you into the rut and it’s your habits that will get you
out.
But
FIRST.
You
have to accept that you are in a rut.
You
have to admit that you have been taking the easy option for a long time.
You
have to accept that at a certain point in time, you made a mistake.
You
have to accept that time and money are not going to get you out of this mess.
However, you need to know that:
You
have to change!
You
must initiate the action. No one else. Just YOU. No one can get you out of a
rut only you.
NOW
STOP.
Sit
down for a moment. Think.
•
What’s the real problem?
•
What’s behind your going deeper and deeper into a rut?
•
What’s the fear here?
•
What are you trying to avoid? AND
DON’T
rush it. Stay with it.
Do
whatever you need to do to bottom it and find the way forward.
NOW
ARE YOU WITH ME?
Gradually
write down the way out. Don’t take the first answer. Make an effort to write down
30 ideas of the way out. Gradually you will become more and more creative. Then
one idea will stick. It will come equipped with fairy lights, a spotlight, and if
you are really lucky-WOW! a full orchestra.
That’s
the way forward.
Now
you have a way forward that feels comfortable. Now you are moving into the
groove. You feel happy, energized, and focused. You are in the flow. The passion is
aroused. Everything is in synch. Everything you do works.
You
are off.
Go
on try.
You
owe it to yourself.
Good
Luck
Please
don't leave this page without saying something. Comment on this and let me know
how to respond to this message I passed across to you. Hear from you soon.
Thank you
You
can also get some tips from Graham and Julie as well at
www.desktop-meditation.com
If you want to know more about how to take your career to the next level, I will advise that you try to lay your hands on the ebook written by Steve Austin on Kindle ebook, the ebook also has a paperback and hardcover copy to have a physical copy of the book. The title of the book is
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