Do you know that increased confidence can no doubt give you the utmost opportunity to achieve anything in life? And one important thing to take note of is how to exhibit that confidence when you need it most to achieve your goals in life.
This might sound like the cheesy kind of advice your parents might have given to you and you might even
be thinking how possible is it that only confidence can do that much. In this
post, I want to let you know it’s really true especially when you truly are
yourself and behave confidently.
There are so many ways you can
exhibit confidence behavior, such as, if you want to get a date, succeed in
your career, want to engage in any business adventure, or need to take any
aspect of your life to the next level, then boosting your confidence is one of the best ways to accomplish that.
Here’s the reason why…
What Confidence Really Means
If you have ever met a male or a woman counterpart and he/she just seems to have everything under control,
then you might have noticed that they no doubt are usually very confident in
what they do. The truth is that the whole reason they appear so successful is that they have taken their confidence level to the extreme. And this will
ultimately help them to achieve virtually everything they put their minds to
achieving. That’s because confidence sends a powerful signal – it says ‘I
consider myself to be a catch and I can do everything’.
Speaking in evolutionary
terms, confidence suggests that you are a good potential mate or a superior
competitor. Even if you look short, poorly dressed, and unappealing –once you
have increased confidence then it will seem as though they are more knowledgeable than they are and can do
everything you can’t seem to be doing.
The assumption is that they must have a reason
to be that confident.
And thus we instantly assume
that once someone is confident, this person can somehow be our superior: and we
must try to be more like them. That’s why we gravitate toward confident people,
want to be associated with them or date them and perhaps even want to be liked
by them.
To a lot of people having too
much confidence is not good as it can lead to unnecessary trouble by calling
yourself what you are not or by doing what you are not capable of doing, such
people only think that it is just enough to be nice. They assume that by acting
nice, they will get people to like them and they can that way overcome their
looks, their stature, or their status. And people can like them by being
reasonable and cool!
But if you don’t have any
self-confidence and you act very nice, then this can actually backfire: it
starts to seem as though you want something
and that you are being a creep into it.
Conversely, if you act a
little less needy, if you can show yourself to be highly capable and impressive, then you can chat with someone in a friendly and open manner. By so doing, then people will be
won over by your charm and your appeal. This niceness seems much more genuine
because you appear like you don’t need help
from everyone.
So guys let me tell you this
to your face; stop trying to win the girl by being nice. She will only take you
as a member of the pack and not be special. Every woman needs someone to be with them but your demeaning behavior at times may put them off from you. However, when you behave confidently you will be taken seriously and this can help you get what you want without ben let off.
And if you are an employee,
stop trying to get the job by being self-deprecating. Try as much as possible
to show you are confident in what you have to deliver and know better that the
rest
Act like you know your worth
and then lay niceness on top of that. That is the winning combination you need to get things done in a way that will favor you!
